Asian Journal- The Filipino-American Community Newspaper

Few young engaged couples realize exactly how hard it is to make a marriage work. Young and in-love, many newly engaged couples believe that love will conquer all in their marriage. But realistically, that is not the case. Marriage takes a lot of hard work, patience and perseverance. Here are a few tips and advice from married couples to engaged couples about what to expect in married life.

You will have your shares of arguments with your spouse but never go to bed angry.

Ronald and Tracy Gomez

Compromise and communicate. Communication is a big plus. Once a month Tracy and I talk about where we are on the table financially, emotionally, and other issues.

Ivy and Rodel Manalang

No matter how busy life gets with work and children’s schedules, find time to go on a date night at least every two weeks. It keeps the spark alive in the relationship.

Nickee de Leon-Huld

Always find time to have a chat with your spouse everyday, even if you have a very hectic schedule or if you had a tiring day.

Richard Narido

Accept flaws. The decision to get married is also a decision to accept your spouse’s flaws whatever they may be. You’ll be living with that person 24 hours a day. Flaws will rise up sooner or later. The best way to prepare for it is to understand who that person is and to not build a false picture of that perfect dream spouse.

Jherlyn Meneses

Marriage is a lifelong commitment. You need to stick with your spouse no matter what especially through difficult times. It’s easy to fall in love but sadly; it’s hard to stay inlove. You need to consistently work on that relationship, be committed to it and desire to stay old together.