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Home Consumer Monette Adeva Maglaya A case for coming home … for a visit, that is

A case for coming home … for a visit, that is

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"Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world." — Gustave Flaubert

(Part 1 of 2)

(A current radio promotion by The WAVE, which gives away trips as prizes to its listeners jogged my memory of a Philippine visit, just about a year ago during the Christmas holidays. I smiled to myself as I listened to one winner who sounded Filipino and who declared quite happily and proudly that he has chosen Manila, Philippines as his destination. This is in contrast to the majority of winners who routinely, predictably choose European destinations such as, Paris or Rome. Can’t fault the guy for choosing well. In good times and bad, there’s no Christmas quite like a Philippine Christmas.)

THINKING of coming home for a visit, kababayan?

In the best scenarios, a 3 week- whirlwind trip to the Philippines is what most Filipino expatriates living and working in the US or elsewhere in the world can shoot for. Aside from putting together the somewhat hefty logistical requirements (translation: money, whether in cash, debit cards or "kaskas" meaning credit cards), one truly needs to be a proactive tactician in mapping out how a Philippine trip pans out. So move over, Marco Polo. This is one of the ways it’s done, Pinoy style.

How do you make a Philippine trip memorable? For the jaded traveler who routinely goes back and forth several times a year, either for business purposes or as a jet setting lifestyle choice, the question is moot and academic. But for the majority of expatriates who can only go on rare occasions because of personal circumstances affecting finances, workloads or family responsibilities, an expensive transcontinental time-out such as this merits thought — lots of it. A Philippine trip should result in a treasure trove of feel-good experiences and ultimately, memories — that make the journey worth all the effort and time spent in excruciating detail, worth all of the expense and maybe, more importantly, worth every nanosecond of one’s hurried and harried expatriate life. The trip must be so good that it must be worth doing all over again.

There’s much to see and do, remembering all too well that we lose a day going there which we regain on the return trip. We have to make allowances for the effects of jet lag to settle in. How does one get the best homecoming experiences? In a word, PLANNING. Know that well-meaning friends and relatives already have first dibs on your limited time. So map out your itinerary (the places and experiences that you must see and do that are on the top rung of your priority list) and itemize your to-do list in detail, way in advance with the proviso that you must be open and flexible in your schedule. The fine art of travel is remembering that an itinerary is just a guide and not necessarily etched in stone. If need be, you must be able to revise on the fly when the occasion calls for it.

Going on a trip is like any other project. It needs a blueprint. It involves the mind-body-spirit connection. You have to be physically fit and mentally agile. Consult your doctor before going on a regular exercise and diet routine a month before leaving. Your immune system will be severely taxed, so a word to the wise — wash your hands often with a sanitizer you keep with you at all times in your travel purse. Get your flu shot. It’s no guarantee but your layer of protection is better. Whether it was just the placebo effect or not, as some dubious studies claim, I can swear by the efficacy of Airborne effervescent tablets. Airborne, after all, seems just Vitamin C pumped up to the max and sold with a good, homey storyline. Do what works for you. Your immune system should be braced for the assault on your body particularly in self-contained, confined spaces like airplanes and waiting rooms where air is re-circulated. No one is totally immune from the cold and flu virus, so be on the defensive. If at all possible, stay away from the obviously afflicted. If you are down for the count, then isolate yourself. And for heaven’s sake, wear a mask. Hydrate always, well, maybe not during the 16-hour plane trip when holding your water in your bladder can be tricky.

You estimate and gather the money required. Fudge the figure twice as much and be warned. Your money will be as fluid as water gushing out of a broken water main. Have one or two credit cards with you for backup and call the 800 number and give them a heads-up to let them know that you will be in the country during a particular period. Fraud units of credit card companies study your spending patterns and much to your dismay, may put a hold on your credit card transaction if it registers you are buying far away from your place of residence. You will end up calling their number to prove your identity, which is not an 800 number, and for which you will pay for the long distance call. Make sure you bring dollars in near-mint condition because shopping mall moneychangers will refuse old, tattered currency with cuts or writing. A lot of non-mall shopping transactions will be in cash, so be prepared to bring cash on your person or in a zippered, discrete purse you keep with you at all times. Vigilance is the key when out in public. Thieves have trained eyes and can home in on a hapless victim. Keep your purse on the side of your body where your shopping companion walks. Beware of distractions and scripted street dramas designed to keep you off guard.

(To be continued in next week’s issue …)

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Nota Bene: Monette Adeva Maglaya is SVP of Asian Journal Publications, Inc. To ask questions, send feedback and requests as well as to inquire about advertising in any or all of the 6 print editions of Asian Journal in California, Nevada and New York/New Jersey and/or advertising in the Print Edition Online of Asian Journal, e-mail This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL READERS! MAY GOD’S GLORIOUS SEASON BRING YOU PEACE AND JOY.

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( Published on December 3, 2008 in Asian Journal Los Angeles p. B2 )

 

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