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The beauty of forgiveness according to Dr. Vicki Belo

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Vicki with chilldren Quark & CrystalleBy the time this column comes out, we’re busy putting the finishing touches and celebrating the first Beautiful Life! Event|Ruffa’s Birthday Bash at the CBS Studios Center.

I wish to thank all of the volunteer crew and staff who have been helping us organize this fun event. Wala akong masabi sa dedication nilang lahat. Of course, where would this project be without the generous sponsors!
Thank you for all your support and confidence in us! For this weekend’s topic, I’m inclined to talk about my good friend Dr. Vicki Belo, who has unfortunately figured in a much-publicized issue resulting from a betrayal on the part of ex-beau Hayden Kho and a sexy actress/Belo Medical Group endorser.

The salacious elements of this issue have bombarded us from all angles and portals--through unauthorized pirated CDs and DVDs, unlawful video uploading on the web, tv talk shows that have dedicated a lot of airtime to the issue, and etc.

Since then, maraming tao na ang nadamay. Everyone has offered their opinion, whether solicited or not.
There are people who are legitimately hurting because of this adversity and others who are just using the issue to advance their own agenda.

On some level, feel that we are all guilty of sensationalizing the situation. Our curiosity has gotten the better of us it seems.

Amid the brouhaha, one woman stands tall. Dr. Vicki Belo whom many view as also a victim in all of these, is naturally concerned but not rattled.

Her confidence comes from knowing that she did nothing wrong.
This famous beauty doctor has really had share of intriga and trials.I can still remember back in early 2009 when Vicki personally shared her heartbreaking story about Hayden. She was really hurting then. All throughout that conversation, she never once mentioned the identity of the "other girl" (kasi hindi pa officially lumabas sa press ang pangalan ng sexy actress). had my suspicions but did not press her for answers.

Vicki said she was still trying to understand what happened to so that she could somehow deal with the pain of his betrayal.

While on a trip to Georgia last March, Vicki found time to touch base with me about the latest on her. She told me that she was already starting to get over it; that she has forgiven
Hayden.

It takes a strong woman to deal with a betrayal of this magnitude and forgive the person or persons who have done her the greatest damage.

Not only has Vicki had her heart broken in the most humiliating way imaginable but her professional credentials have also been unjustly questioned because of this issue. And for Vicki to still have the heart to forgive is really superhuman.


Last Updated ( Sunday, 28 June 2009 21:48 )  

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