IF you have serious debt problems, you may feel depressed and alone. It may seem like the end of the world. Your self-esteem may have suffered. You may feel angry, depressed, guilty- or a combination of all three. You may consider yourself a failure, perhaps feeling angry with yourself for certain decisions you have made in the past that led to your present situation. I understand how you feel.
A lot of people in your shoes feel the same way, but I’m here to tell you that like most things in life, whatever you’re going through is most likely only temporary and will soon pass. How can I possibly say this? Well, did you know that as I write this article, millions of honest, hard-working people just like yourself are having problems paying their debts? As a matter of fact, there are more than 1 million personal bankruptcy filings in the United States every year as a result of being in debt. Do you think these people file bankruptcy simply because they do not want to take personal responsibility for their debts? Far from it! It is an established fact that most people who file bankruptcy do so as a result of circumstances beyond their control. Study after study has shown that some of the most common reasons why people file for bankruptcy -unemployment, sickness, disability, death in the family- are events which are beyond our control. It is not always your fault. So quit blaming yourself because doing so will not get you anywhere.