The beauty of forgiveness according to Dr. Vicki Belo

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Vicki with chilldren Quark & Crystalle By the time this column comes out, we’re busy putting the finishing touches and celebrating the first Beautiful Life! Event|Ruffa’s Birthday Bash at the CBS Studios Center.

I wish to thank all of the volunteer crew and staff who have been helping us organize this fun event. Wala akong masabi sa dedication nilang lahat. Of course, where would this project be without the generous sponsors! Thank you for all your support and confidence in us! For this weekend’s topic, I’m inclined to talk about my good friend Dr. Vicki Belo, who has unfortunately figured in a much-publicized issue resulting from a betrayal on the part of ex-beau Hayden Kho and a sexy actress/Belo Medical Group endorser.

The salacious elements of this issue have bombarded us from all angles and portals--through unauthorized pirated CDs and DVDs, unlawful video uploading on the web, tv talk shows that have dedicated a lot of airtime to the issue, and etc.

Since then, maraming tao na ang nadamay. Everyone has offered their opinion, whether solicited or not. There are people who are legitimately hurting because of this adversity and others who are just using the issue to advance their own agenda.

On some level, feel that we are all guilty of sensationalizing the situation. Our curiosity has gotten the better of us it seems.

Amid the brouhaha, one woman stands tall. Dr. Vicki Belo whom many view as also a victim in all of these, is naturally concerned but not rattled.

Her confidence comes from knowing that she did nothing wrong. This famous beauty doctor has really had share of intriga and trials.I can still remember back in early 2009 when Vicki personally shared her heartbreaking story about Hayden. She was really hurting then. All throughout that conversation, she never once mentioned the identity of the "other girl" (kasi hindi pa officially lumabas sa press ang pangalan ng sexy actress). had my suspicions but did not press her for answers.

Vicki said she was still trying to understand what happened to so that she could somehow deal with the pain of his betrayal.

While on a trip to Georgia last March, Vicki found time to touch base with me about the latest on her. She told me that she was already starting to get over it; that she has forgiven Hayden.

It takes a strong woman to deal with a betrayal of this magnitude and forgive the person or persons who have done her the greatest damage.

Not only has Vicki had her heart broken in the most humiliating way imaginable but her professional credentials have also been unjustly questioned because of this issue. And for Vicki to still have the heart to forgive is really superhuman.
She even credited for making the effort to set things right.

He’s been seeing a therapist toward the process of forgiving himself as well.

Vicki refuses to let the crab mentality pull her down. commend her for this. Whatever the outcome, know she will get through this stronger and if possible, more compassionate.

I was touched to see her on TFC recently giving an interview about the lessons she’s learned from all of these.

Her candor is very moving. She recognized the unconditional love from her two children, Quark and Crystalle. She said this is the kind of love that will really see you through whatever challenges you face in life. Boyfriends may come and go but the love of your children and family, you can always count on.

Vicki has acknowledged the mistakes that she has made. But feel that her sometimes lack of judgment on who to trust pales in comparison to the ultra kindness of her heart.

Last week, a forecaster by the name of Madam Eliza Blue from Glendale, impressed some of my readers because of her insightful remark about the Ruffa and John Lloyd issue.

So we asked her for her take on Dr. Belo’s situation and here is what she had to say:

"Batu-bato sa langit, tamaan ‘wag magalit! Vicki, kahit ano gawin mo, attractive ka talaga sa tao. Kita ko yan sa mapupungay mong mga mata (nakita ko pics mo nung din pa ito nireretoke). Poised at sophisticated ka. Business, power and money e nasa dugo mo talaga. Pioneer ka; tinitingala ko ng tao kasi me aura ka ng control at confidence, kung negosyo pag-uusapan ha? Eto na, pero sa personal, wrong choice ka. Sa totoo lang, Vicki, me dalawang katauhan ka. Tanggalin natin yung marangya at itsura mo sa labas, e deep inside, loner ka at pilit mong hinahanapan ng dahilan ang lahat ng pangyayari sa buhay mo, lalo ngayon. At naghahanap ka rin ng taong tulad mo para unawain ka. At yun ang dahilan bakit attracted si Hayden Kho sa’ yo. Sad to say din, parang palagi mong mapupuna ang sarili mong sinusuportahan usually ng pinansyal ang mga nadidikit sa ‘yo. Isang lalaking mas may edad sa’yo at may halong lahi mula sa Asya ang makakaunawa sa’ yo. Antabayan ang lalaking ito na malamang sa hindi e mahilig mag-tie na reddish at purplish. Ang ending nito? Malakas vibes ko, di makukulong si Vicki. Makakaahon siya sa kinasasangkutan niya ngayon. Cycle na sa kanya na kapag nakitaan ng kahinaan, e automatic kasunod ang katatagan. Yan ang nababasa ko sa bolang kristal." --Madam Eliza Blue.
(NOTA BENE: I believe in God and I don’t take this "hula" seriously. But for the benefit of our readers, I have to include this in the article. To all my readers, thank you so much for the overwhelming feedback every week.)
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The author is a Marikina-born, award-winning celebrity beauty stylist with his own chain of salons across Southern California and Las Vegas, Nevada. Ultimately, Monet is known as an all-around artiste who produces sold-out fashion and awards shows, as well as unforgettable marketing campaigns. Monet is also the founder of the revolutionary all-natural beauty products available at www.skinbymonet.com. He supports many humanitarian efforts to include projects in his native Marikina, The Bantay Bata Foundation, and many more. To contact Monet, please visit www.monetsalon.com for more information.
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( Published on June 27, 2009 in Asian Journal Los Angeles p. B4 )

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