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Monette Adeva Maglaya

A Case for Coming Home… (Part 1 of 7)

(7 votes, average: 4.43 out of 5)

"Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world." — Gustave Flaubert

Thinking of coming home for a visit, kababayan?

In the best scenarios, a three-week whirlwind trip to the Philippines is what most Filipino expatriates living and working in the US or elsewhere in the world can shoot for. Aside from putting together the somewhat hefty logistical requirements (translation: money, whether in cash, debit cards or "kaskas" meaning credit cards), one truly needs to be a proactive tactician in mapping out how a Philippine trip pans out. So move over, Marco Polo. This is the way it’s done.

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Choices

(8 votes, average: 4.50 out of 5)

"Wise men learn from other people’s mistakes; fools, from their own. —Plautus

We live in the land of mind-boggling choices. We exercise the freedom to choose in nearly every aspect of our lives: from the mundane and trivial to the profound and significant. We choose which detergent to use or what color of hair dye your salon colorist will apply to your tresses this week. Those are the easy ones. It is the profound, life-changing choices that stump us often, such as choosing a career, choosing a mate, which lifestyle to adapt or where to live. If we are to live fully, it is imperative to learn this one critical skill of knowing how to make the right choices. Without this skill, life will just be a pathetic series of what-might-have beens.

It is, at best, an intuitive skill. How does one acquire it? There are no simple, cut and dried steps. It helps to have a few essentials tucked in your belt such as: a broad knowledge base, a sound noggin, a good upbringing, a good heart, time and propensity for deep reflection and study to think things through, guidance from both the mortal and the spiritual realms and the ability to extract the lessons from one’s own experiences or better yet, from the collective pool of other people’s experiences.

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Getting Things Done: A Redux

(8 votes, average: 4.50 out of 5)

"If it’s going to be, it’s up to me." —Robert H. Schuller

If you want anything done, give it to a busy person. But perhaps, this is true only up to a point. One’s carrying capacity can be maxed out. Anyone who is both efficient and effective has mastered many times by trial and error over some length of time that fine blend of mixing the art and science of planning his work and working his plan. How? By thinking things through, prioritizing, sequencing and when necessary, improvising to stay within timetables and resources and keeping a laser-like focus on the goal while keeping your balance. It’s a tall order yet doable. Anyone, determined enough, can get things done.

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Deferring Gratification

(9 votes, average: 4.56 out of 5)

"… So many of us define ourselves by what we have, what we wear, what kind of house we live in and what kind of car we drive … If you think of yourself as the woman in the Cartier watch and the Hermes scarf, a house fire will destroy not only your possessions but yourself."

— Linda Henley

(Much of the economic woes we struggle with these days can be attributed to the impulse for instant gratification which American society, through its powerful influence-peddling media and with the help of the internet, engenders without apology. Need or want something? You can have it immediately, with little or no consequence. So the story line goes. By now, we know that’s a brazen lie.
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Surviving in a hostile immigrant environment

(11 votes, average: 4.64 out of 5)

"Wherever we look upon this earth, the opportunities take shape within the problems." —Nelson Rockefeller

DESPITE the enforcement of harsh and restrictive laws that targeted certain ethnic groups, ethnic business niches began with small and tentative success experiences gained by a few trailblazing immigrants within certain communities. Barred from entering the mainstream work force, many had no choice but to go into tiny businesses catering to their own communities as a means to survive. The success formula of one or a few is quickly copied and transferred to others within the community, thus building a momentum where many go into the same business and succeed as well until a saturation level is reached and new industry niches need to be discovered and explored.

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